Safe word

Domestic relationships of all sorts might work a lot better by having a safeword in case an argument starts to hurt someone too much. To disrespect a safeword would be grounds to dissolve the relationship. It's got to be that serious. A safeword is sort of like a "block" at Occupy general assemblies. It means [...] Read More @ Source



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